Is your child living out the dream you always wanted for yourself?
Well, its normal to feeljealousof your child sometimes.
Theyre growing up in a more open and accepting society.
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You may feel like theyre getting the life you always wanted.
But how do you manage these jealous feelings so it doesnt hurt the relationship with your child?
Is It Wrong to Feel Jealous of Your Child?
Harwood reassures that feeling jealous is a normal experience.
Your jealousy only becomes a problem if you dont manage it appropriately.
Campbell says thatemotionsarent good or bad theyre signals.
The important part is how you respond to it.
But if you recognize it as an invitation for self-reflection, it becomes an opportunity for growth.
She gives the example of being jealous about the friendships your child is forming in their life.
This may cue you into the fact that you may need more close relationships.
Should You Tell Your Child How You Feel?
Campbell adds that kids shouldnt carry the weight of their parents emotions.
Instead, process these feelings with a partner, friend, or therapist.
