It was also believed that people could only be attracted to women, men, or both.
Additionally, terminology used to describe sexual orientation has evolved over time.
Are the Terms ‘Sexual Preference’ and ‘Sexual Orientation’ the Same?
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The term “sexual preference” used to be acceptable.
But sexual preference isnt really an accurate term to describe sexual orientation and shouldnt be used.
Your sexual orientation is not a choiceits just who you are, and its something to be celebrated.
And thats certainly a big part of it!
But sexual orientation doesnt just refer to who you are interested in having sex with.
Its also about who you are interested in having an intimate emotional relationship with.
This may mean sex, but sometimes there isnt any sex involved.
Types of Sexual Orientation
There are many ways to describe sexual orientation.
And, more sexual orientations have been recognized in recent years.
Sexual Orientation vs.
Gender Identity
Sexual orientation and gender identity are not the same things.
Is It Normal to Question Your Sexual Orientation?
Understanding your sexual orientation is something that may be a lifelong journey.
The timeline and process of understanding sexual orientation are unique to each person and all paths are valid.
This is usually so that you could receive inclusive care and treatment.
However, you are under no obligation to share your sexual orientation.
If you dont wish to answer, you could leave this question blank or choose I dont know.
In fact, forcing someone to change their sexual orientation can be harmful and traumatic.
Experts arent sure what causes a person to have the sexual orientation that they do.
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