Your first reaction may be to say no, but you may fear losing your partner.
An open relationship isn’t inherently good or bad.
It’s a different pop in of relationship dynamic that works for some people and not for others.
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“Monogamous marriage is an age-old institution with religious underpinnings.
Unfortunately, non-monogamous relationships continue to be stigmatized.
However, it’s important tokeep an open mindwhile you consider your partner’s suggestion.
And, remember that you’re able to always make changes if you feel the need to.
to have a successful open relationship, you and your partner both need to be on board.
Both of you would have to decide if and how you would proceed with your relationship.
Maybe they just think it would spice up your relationship.
It’s important to ask your partner all of the reasons why they want an open relationship.
Does My Partner Actually Just Want to Cheat on Me?
While an open relationship is a consensual form of non-monogamy,cheatingis a non-consensual form of non-monogamy.
Understanding your partners motivations can help you make this decision.
Does My Partner Think I’m Not Enough for Them?
Wanting an open relationship could indicate your partner has needs that are not being met within your relationship.
However, they could also want an open relationship for reasons that dont have anything to do with you.
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