However, for some people, love and attraction operate differently.
However, they don’t wish for these feelings to be reciprocated.
Lithromantic is derived from the Greek word ‘lithos,’ which means ‘stone.’
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The term refer to the way lithromantics feelings remain unchanged despite receiving affection from others.
It’s crucial to remember everyone’s experience with romantic orientation is unique.
Keep reading to learn more about lithromanticism, one of the many expressions of romantic orientation.
Here are a few key orientations to compare it to.
It’s important to remember that all these labels serve to help you understand and express your feelings better.
However you want to use these terms to describe yourself is okay they do not have to be definiteive.
In reality, they can form relationships that can be rich and fulfilling.
Another misconception confuses lithromanticism with aromanticism.
They experience romantic attraction, but they don’t feel a desire for this attraction to be returned.
Some people also have a false notion that being lithromantic is synonymous with having afear of commitment or intimacy.
Lastly, some may dismiss lithromanticism as a new fad or trend.
Labels only exist to help people understand and articulate their experiences more coherently.
Discussing your lithromantic orientation early in a relationship can help set realistic expectations and boundaries.
Patience, understanding, and a willingness to talk openly can significantly ease these situations.
Navigating expectations is another critical aspect.
Lithromantic individuals might need to manage their own and their partners' expectations in relationships.
Finding a community and garnering support can also be valuable.
Friends and family can support lithromantic individuals by making them feel included, valued, and understood.
We can help people to feel understood by learning and comprehending the significance of this identity to them.
Harris adds that we help people feel valued by reminding them of their importance to us.
We can increase feelings of inclusion by recognizing areas of disadvantage and increasing opportunities to participate in our society.
Lithromanticism, like any other romantic orientation, accentuates the beautiful and complex spectrum of human emotions.
A deeper understanding of lithromanticism can break down misconceptions, encourage meaningful discussions, and promote inclusivity.
Each person’s experience with love and attraction is unique and valid.
Published online July 14, 2023:1-16.
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