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What Is Reunification Therapy?
Reunification therapy refers tofamily therapythat aims to reunite or reestablish a relationship, usually between a parent and child.
It emphasizesattachment, promotes healthy communication, and works to heal injuries in the relationship.
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It can aim to improve relationships within the family or treat alienation.
Reunification work can be long-term, though short-term intensive programs are also available.
Types of Reunification Therapy
In most cases, reunification therapy happens after ahigh-conflict divorce.
When reunification is court-ordered following divorce, it often includes co-parenting work in addition to parent-child sessions.
In these cases, reunification aims to establish a safe living environment for all family members.
However, there are specific emphases that are unique to reunification therapy.
Co-Parenting Work
Co-parenting work is essentially couples counseling and parenting for parents who are no longer together.
When reunification therapy is needed after a high-conflict divorce, co-parenting work is an essential part of the process.
This affects the ongoing relationship between a parent and a child.
All family members learn to express themselves in appropriate and productive ways, even through difficult topics.
Effectiveness
The effectiveness of reunification therapy varies.
In cases of parental alienation, the parent might prevent the child from reuniting with the alienated parent.
Divorce is stressful and upsetting, and therapy focused on repairing relationships within the family can be beneficial.
How to Get Started
Hurt feelings and anger are expected and common between a divorced couple.
It can pave the way for a healthy co-parenting relationship in the future.
Reunification therapy is intense, difficult, and emotional work.
Be prepared for this as you work to strengthen your relationship with your children.
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