We also discuss help available for individuals and couples who seek greater sexual intimacy in their relationships.
Non-Physical Ways to Increase Sexual Intimacy
Achieving sexually intimate experiences starts outside the bedroom.
Here are a few non-sexual ways to boost sexual intimacy with a partner.
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Some people need intimacy before becoming sexual while others want sex before they can become intimate.
Misunderstandings can ensue if we dont talk to our partners to understand their needs.
For instance, we might be more open to indulging in playfulness or acting outsexual fantasies.
Be Appreciative
Another way to increase sexual intimacy is toexpress thanksfor our partners loving gestures.
It’s easier tobe in the mood for sexual activitieswhen we feel appreciated.
Physical Ways to Increase Sexual Intimacy
There are also several physical ways to spice up our relationship.
Exciting activities that can lead to intimate sex execute the gamut from kissing to oral sex.
Here are some other physical things we can do.
But taking this approach is one way to promote their desire for sex, leading to greater sexual intimacy.
Research indicates that the pop in of flirting that is most effective can vary based on sex.
Foreplay is an important step in warming up to intimate sex.
Simply kissing our partner tenderly or giving them a sensual massage can set the mood for whats to come.
Looking intently at the person we love can show our readiness to move forward intimately.
Express Physical Affection
Physical affectioncan be expressed through multiple gestures.
We can cuddle on the couch, massage our partner’s shoulders, or hold their hands.
Researchers found that partner-intimate touching increased feelings of closeness.
Getting Help for More Intimate Sex
A warm and intimate sex life supports greater health.
Both in-person andonline sex therapy practitionerscan help uncover issues, and then work to turn them around.
Don’t be embarrassed about looking for such assistance.
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