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What Is Heteronormativity?

Heteronormativity is the assumption that everyone is straight.

It’s the idea that romantic and sexual relationships are always between one man and one woman.

Tips to combat heteronormativity

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In 1868,Karl Maria Kerbeny definedthe terms “heterosexual” and “homosexual.”

However, it’s important to note that heteronormativity existed long before these terms were defined.

Examples of Heteronormativity

Heteronormativity presents in numerous different ways.

These are a few examples of how heteronormativity is displayed.

People may assume they aren’t really sure of themselves or their sexuality.

In truth, equivalents of same-gender relationships exist throughout the biological world, and it isn’t abnormal.

It’s a natural part of life.

It also gives the message that such people don’t exist, which is entirely untrue.

This is ahomophobicmessage and one that is emotionally harmful to people of all sexual and romantic identities besides heterosexuality.

Unfortunately, homophobia can also result in physical violence.

When people see themselves represented in their culture, they feel like they are a part of it.

It Leads to Bullying

Thebullying of LGBTQIA+ childrenoften takes a major toll on their emotional health.

It Rewards Discrimination

How heteronormativity rewardsdiscriminationis very similar to how it promotes bullying.

Heteronormativity rewards discrimination by creating an exclusive club in which only straight, cis people belong.

Expanding Your Worldview

Heteronormativity is a major driving force in our culture.

When you meet someone, ask for their pronouns rather than use the ones you assume they use.

Tell people how you identify, rather than making them guess or assume.

These simple gestures make people feel included and welcomed instead of attacked.

Heteronormativity may be a strong ideology, but it’s an old-fashioned one that causes harm.

Small actions on everyone’s part help us attain an equal society.

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