And even when you do find ‘the one, nurturing love is just as much of a feat.
Relationships require a great deal of effort.
Unfortunately, love alone (while grand), isnt the sole way to get through lifes challenges together.
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So, whats the secret to making it work?
Here are some gems from Redditors that have struck a chord with us.
Communication & Conflict Resolution
Lets be clear: no relationship is without its hurdles.
Keeping the Romance Alive
We might have heard of thethree-year relationship problem, theseven-year itchor thepost-honeymoon phase.
end after your days of courtship,
The solution?
Remember that change is inevitable.
As humans, we are constantly growing and evolvingforcing changes on each other can inevitably lead to resentment.
Sometimes a change in core values can lead to a parting of waysand that’s OK.
There is power in staying true to yourself even if it means you have to compromise your situation.
You deserve a love that will align with your needs and beliefs in the right time.
Working with acouples therapistcan help you both communicate more effectively, navigate differences together, and more.
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