It’s kind of cute when you stumble over your words!
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Navigating the subtle signs of romantic interest can feel like decoding a secret language.
Maybe youve noticed your crush fidgeting with their sleeves or stumbling over their words when youre around.
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And it’s kind of cute when they do it, honestly!
But does this mean theyre into you?
Or are they just a bitanxiousin general?
Weve all been there, and we’ve all Googled these exact questions before.
While nervous habits can definitely be clues, they can also be tricky to interpret.
What Makes a Nervous Habit?
Theyre just our natural reactions to feeling uncomfortable or excited.
For example, they might nervously adjust their clothes or smooth their hair.
But what do these habits look like?
Here are some common examples:
Of course, nervous habits can differ from one person to the next.
Do These Little Behaviors Mean They Like Me?
Okay, so theyre nervous.
Dr. Romanoff suggests paying attention to context.
The key is to look for patterns and context over time.
Practical Tips for Responding to Nervous Habits
So, youve noticed someone showing nervous habits around you.
How can you respond in a way that puts them at ease?
Do you have romantic feelings for them, too?
If so, how would you like things to play out?
Would you feel comfortable making a move?
Remember, youre not obligated to return someones romantic interest.
Even if theyre kind and wonderful, its okay if you just dont reciprocate those feelings.
Beingdirectcan help you flush the air.
If saying Hey, do you have a thing for me?
feels too intense, try something lighter, like, You seem a little nervouseverything okay?
This could be through flirty body language or by simplytelling them how you feel.
Whether through words or actions, reassuring them that youre enjoying their company can work wonders.
Having a crush can be exciting, but it can also feel very nerve-wracking and confusing.
If you sense theyre struggling with nerves, allow space for them to open up at their own pace.
A little patience and validation can go a long way.
For example, you could provide positive verbal affirmations and use open, warm body language.
