parts of being a college student is balancing school and social life on your own for the first time.
What Makes Dating in College Unique?
The pool of people is just so much bigger.
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It takes the pressure off a little bit because there are always people that you’ve never met before.
In college, expectations are less likely to be evenly matched, and many interactions reflect that.
This often leads to hurt feelings and confusion.
The expectation of hookup culture in college can also make people who are in relationships feel judged.
However, Katie has realized its important to stay true to you and be honest with yourself.
There’s not really any in between, Danielle says.
Overall, its best to participate in hookup culture in whatever way makes you most comfortable.
Simply doing things you enjoy will make it easier to search for like minded people.
For Gail, this looks like blocking out time for both her partner and her friends.
Priorities can also go beyond relationships.
Behonestand open from the beginning, Dr. Marsh says.
Regular communication is key.
Nick says technology makes this easier.
Communication is also hugely important for long-distance relationships.
Katie says she and her partner venture to talk every day.
And that is okay and normal.
“You’re growing and changing.
So much is happening for you and you’re making so many life decisions.
*Names of some sources have been altered for the sake of personal privacy.
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