However, too much time spent with any one person can become unhealthy and can potentially lead to codependency.
When you reach out, do they respond?
If they reach out, do you respond?
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Are all parties approachable?
All of this factors into how accessible partners are within a relationship.
Responsiveness
Responsiveness refers to how you are received when you reach out to a partner.
What Happens When You Only Spend Time With Your Romantic Partner(s)?
The expectations can become unreasonable and, ultimately, leave partners feeling isolated and pressured to perform.
Emotional accessibility is still present but the pressure of being the only support person is decreased.
People who love each other can still hurt each other, even if unintentionally.
So, having trusted others to turn to for guidance and perspective can benefit your romantic relationships.
Creating Boundaries With Friends
Boundariesare always important in healthy relationships.
Are there topics that are to be off limits?
Are there things that should or should not be shared with friends?
Having an honest conversation about this with your partner is key to easing any fears or uncertainty.
Secure connection in our romantic relationship is to be cherished.
Being open with one another in this way can be of great benefit to thequality of your relationship.
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