Do you text the other person first?
Play it cool and wait for them to make a move?
Send a funny meme to get the conversation going?
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We asked the relationship experts to weigh in.
But, what should you say, how should you say it, and most importantlywhenshould you say it?
Dont worry, weve got you!
Level up your dating game with these texting strategies.
A quick message shows youre interested andkeeps the conversation going.
It could be:
Extra props for making your text funny!
Research shows us thathumoris a highly desired trait in a mate.
Do: Match Their Energy
If they text you first, match their energy toprevent any awkwardness.
For instance:
Research studies have found that having similar communication styles can boost attraction.
Do: Be Honest About How You Feel
Its important to be honest about how you feel.
Clear communication prevents any crossed wires andmixed signals.
Keep your messages brief but not one-worded.
Be polite and casual while being sincere.
Dont: Get Too Intense Too Soon
Too much, too fast can be overwhelming.
Save those deep dives for later, once youve gotten to know each other better.
So, no matter what you do, dont text them when youre drunk.
If youre tipsy and thinking about texting… dont.
You could say: Had a great time tonightthanks for planning such a fun evening!
The three day rule is outdated.
A simple message later that night or the next morning can keep the momentum going.
Hope you got home safe.
We asked the relationship experts what to do next based on their response.
Whether youre into them or not feeling it, stay cool and dont overthink it.
Be real, keep it casual, and trust the process.
If they feel the same way as you, theyll show it.
If not, no hard feelings.
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