Ultimately, the important thing is that you are working toward self-improvement and recovery.
Even the children can get caught up in the lies.
That is why many people consider it to be a family disease.
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The family can become totally controlled by diseased thinking.
Although the illusion of control may continue, their lives become unmanageable, because alcohol is really in control.
It is cunning, baffling, and powerful.
But recovery for the entire family can begin when someone finally breaks thecycle of denial.
That first step begins with admitting powerlessness.
Finally being honest about the situation.
How does that work?
How Do You Get to Step 1?
Many have said that taking that first step is one of the most difficult things to do.
Some people go to their first meeting after a rude awakening.
A friend or family member may confront you about your drinking.
You may have a medical crisis or get stopped for a DUI.
You decide you have to take action and go to a meeting.
You may continue to make things work and, therefore, be part of the sickness.
Only after admitting you are powerless can you begin to make changes in yourself.
You have to give up the illusion of power.
From step one, you’ve got the option to continue to the rest of the12 stepsand12 traditions.
You might not be ready the first time you decide to attend a meeting.
Twelve-step groups will be ready when you are.
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