A sexual identity where you derive more sexual pleasure alone than with others.
Some people with this sexuality may prefer masturbation to sex with others.
Autosexuality exists on a spectrum and no one’s experience of being autosexual is the same.
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Here are some signs that can indicate you are autosexual.
This awareness can help you determine your preferences and what brings youpleasure.
Neither of these is wrong, but they can make it challenging to feel connected or in sync sexually.
This can lead to additional conflict and a lack of communication.
These labels fuel otherness and diminish an individuals experience of sexuality.
Some believe that autosexuality is the same asasexualityand it’s not.
Autosexuality isnt a throw in of sexual dysfunction and it’s also not a choice to be celibate.
Autosexual people can be attracted to and enjoy intimacy with themselves and others.
How to Support Someone Who Is Autosexual
People deserve respect and kindness.
There is nothing shameful or wrong about finding yourself attractive or enjoying masturbation more than partnered sex.
If someone tells you that theyre autosexual, believe them.
Can I Ask Someone About Their Identity?
Sexuality is a very personal experience.
So use your judgment when determining if it’s OK to ask someone about their sexuality.
So, if theyre comfortable with it, talk to them about their experience.
If someone does not want to talk to you about it, then respect their boundary.
LGBT Center-UNC Chapel Hill.Asexuality, Attraction, and Romantic Orientation.
