Sibling Sexual Abuse is Common
Sexual abuseamong siblings happens more frequently than most people realize.
This is exacerbated by the fact that sibling sexual abuse is not well-defined.
Research also suggests that sexualized behavior by perpetrators is likely to become more intrusive over time.
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Consequently, offenders tend to commit moresex crimesif they dont receive treatment.
Other times, signs of sexual abuse are more behavioral.
If they are in immediate danger, call 911.
For more mental health resources, see ourNational Helpline Database.
Theres also a deep sense of shame that can occur when the perpetrator was a family member.
Adult survivors sometimes experience ongoing relationship problems as a result.
Sexual abuse is a crime.
Both the victim and the perpetrator need your attention.
Other children in the home or family who were not involved may also need treatment.
Victims need to be believed, supported, and protected.
And if children tell you about concerning behaviors or report being abused by a sibling, believe them.
Children can heal withappropriate treatment, support, love, and understanding.
It is normal to feel fear and confusion if you suspect sibling sexual abuse.
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