And should you disclose yours?
So, does your body count matter?
And how open should you be about it in a relationship?
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Whether you should ask your partner about their body count is complicated.
In Pews findings, however, 65% of respondents thought casual sex was acceptable.
How body count is viewed also differs by culture and location.
or Dont you have an STI with all that experience?
Aliyah Mooresays its important to honor your feelings when it comes to your curiosity about your partners body count.
Gender-wise, perceptions of body count are heavily affected by sexism and whats called the sexual double standard.
Melancon points to research like a 2020 article entitled He is a Stud, She is a Slut!
What to Do If Your Partner Is Bothered By Your Sexual History?
It’s important to take things at a pace that works for both you and your partner.
If you or your partner feel uncomfortable or overwhelmed, take a break or end the conversation.
you’re free to always revisit the topic at a later time when you’re both ready.
Pew Research Center.Key takeaways on Americans views of and experiences with dating and relationships.
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Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.Key Statistics from the National Survey of Family Growth N Listing.
