The president had contracted the very illness hed been publicly downplayinga perfect example of a schadenfreude motivator.

Paul Hokemeyer, PhD

Having a competitive edge on other human beings is instinctual.

Having a competitive edge on other human beings is instinctual.

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Zoom out, and the same applies to in-group, out-group dynamics.

As tribal beings, humans seek the protection and advancement of the group.

This can be tapped via the failure of an opposing group.

Today, warring tribes might best be exemplified by our allegiances to sports teams or political parties.

Of course, its not that simple.

Common underlying emotions include envy, anger, inferiorityfeelings related to self-worth.

[Schadenfreude] gives them a sense of control and dominance.

Another emotional trigger thats especially relevant right now is uncertainty.

Ho points to schadenfreude as a coping mechanism humans use in trying to achieve normalcy.

With the [COVID-19] pandemic, everything has been turned upside down in the world.

[Schadenfreude] gives them a sense of control and dominance.

However, in the realm of coping mechanisms, Ho likens schadenfreude to low-hanging fruit.

When we get hooked into our limbic system, there is an addictive quality to it,Hokemeyer says.

We become hyperactive, our prefrontal cortex shuts down, and were acting on our very primitive emotions.

Not to mention, its not exactly compassionate to be the one who constantly delights in others suffering.

You feel less connected with people, which does a huge number on your physical and mental health.

“Open up the conversation.

This is a universal thing.”

There’s a good chance your friend can even relate.

Write down 10 to 15 activities that boost your mood.

They can range from a cup of coffee or long walk to a lavish vacation.

Whenever schadenfreude bubbles upas it inevitably willcounteract it with healthy sources of joy and validation from your list.

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