Questions like, “What makes you who you are?”
or “Do we share the same values?”
For mid to late dating, questions like “What is your preferred timeline for marriage and children?”
Verywell / Zoe Hansen
Are You Ready for a Relationship?
What makes you who you are?
As you have these early interactionsand throughout your relationshipmake sure you’re truly listening.
What are you looking for in a partner?
Its also important to know, early on, what the other is looking for in a partner.
Do we share the same values?
You dont have to agree on everything for enjoy a satisfying relationship.
These issues may not be relevant now, but they will be in the future.
If you do not share the same values this is probably not the long-term relationship for you.
Mid to Late Dating
Theres a certain bliss associated with mid to late dating.
By this point, youre likely comfortable with your partner and you know them pretty well.
Here are some important questions to ask.
Is this moving toward lasting love, or is it just a physical connection?
The early stages of a relationship are blissful in both emotional and physical dimensions.
Nows a good time to determine where each other is at.
What is your preferred timeline for marriage and children?
How will we keep the spark going after dating for years?
Relationships have seasons, and sometimes life can get in the way.
How have you changed in recent years?
This question might surprise your partner because its possibly one they havent considered themselves.
Science tells us that effective communication can greatly increase relationship satisfaction.
How can I continue showing up for you?
This question does two things.
First, it demonstrates that you are still dedicated to being your partners best friend and ally.
What are some ways we can spend more quality time together?
What This Means For You
Marriage isnt the ultimate goal of a relationship.
