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When a couple with dependent childrendivorce, how do they parent their children?

For some parents, parallel parenting is an option.

For some parents, it may be a permanent solution.

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For others, it can be a temporary fix while they settle their differences.

But, how does parallel parenting work, and how does it affect the children themselves?

Lets take a closer look.

What Are the Benefits of Parallel Parenting?

Are There Any Drawbacks to Parallel Parenting?

While parallel parenting can suit parents in some circumstances, there can be some challenges.

Jackson explains that parents in this sort of situation may find it difficult to beopen-mindedor objective about it.

What’s Your Parenting Style?

And for the best, most productive results, there are things you’re free to try.

Dont communicate excessively, demand too much, or be overly harsh.

And, try not to lash out if theres a rude comment, as difficult as it might be.

In short, explains Jackson, Put your childrens needs first.

Always consider whats best for them, and what they need.

She recommends talking through things with a trusted adult or a therapist when your children arent present.

Another suggestion Jackson has is to explore co-parenting communication options.

Or, perhaps speaking in person is best, as nothing can get misconstrued.

Most importantly, says Dr. Mezulis, It allows children to maintain strong relationships with both parents.

Something else thats important to consider is that the parallel parenting strategy might need to change across ages.

Its crucial to consider the legal aspects of parallel parenting.

When parallel parenting, however, some parents may be inclined to argue with each other over minor decisions.

But can parallel parenting actually work?

While it can, says Jackson, there needs to be a degree of working together.

This means both parents need to talk to each other and cooperate in their strategies."

This can affect their emotional and psychological well-being.

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