Narcissistic supply seems to embolden the narcissist, while being detrimental to their supplier.
Why Do Narcissists Seek Narcissistic Supply?
Narcissists are fueled by how their supplier responds, whether purposefully or not.
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Experts say narcissists thrive on that predictable response.
The reaction creates the drive for the narcissist to continue their behavior.
Narcissists often also have a fear of being unwanted and unloved.
Manipulating others to give them the acceptance they crave is a part of the narcissistic supply relationship.
What Are Examples of Narcissistic Supply?
The Impact of Narcissistic Supply
Narcissistic supply relationships are unhealthy.
The supplier can struggle with depression oranxiety, and even post-traumatic stress disorder.
The feelings a supplier experiences take a physical, emotional, and mental toll.
Narcissists, in turn, feel like they are in a favorable position.
They feel empowered, valued, and worthy of esteem.
They enjoy the feelings of power and inflated ego.
How Do You Know If You’re Narcissistic Supply?
Conversely, you feel like a worthless, insignificant piece of garbage when you’re being devalued.
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Taking refuge in your circle of support also helps to lessen your dependency on the narcissist.
Again, this lessens your dependency on the narcissist.
licensed psychotherapist and CEO/founder ofLift Wellness.
If your situation has escalated, removing yourself from danger is paramount.
Ultimately, experts say the main concern isnt the behavior as much as its the person behind it.
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