We play cat-and-mouse games with them, chasing them and playing hard to get at the same time.
Its all super fun and exciting, as weflirtwith them and wonder who will make a move first.
In turn, Ludus love refers to playful, fun, or game-like love.
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Read on to explore the characteristics, psychology, and importance of Ludus love.
We also ask the experts how to practice it in modern relationships.
At a Glance
There are many types of love.
Theres extreme, possessive love and theres intense, passionate love.
Theres also fun, playful and lighthearted love, aka Ludus love.
Ludus love is characterized by flirting, joking, and teasing.
It focuses on living in the moment, rather than worrying about tomorrow.
It tends to be commitment-phobic and non-exclusive, making it more casual than other forms of love.
The intensity of these reactions is euphoric, making us feel intoxicated, or addicted to our new crush.
Societal perceptions of Ludus love can also vary based on gender, due to deep-seated gender biases.
However, a woman in the same position might experienceslut-shaming.
Parting Words
Ludus loves commitment-free, happy-go-lucky nature challenges traditional notions of what relationships should be.
It gives us a chance to explore different connections, while having fun along the way.
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