But what does it actually mean to be a narcissist?

Theres much more to narcissism than just being a self-absorbed jerk.

What Is Narcissism?

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How Is Narcissism Different Than Being a Stuck-Up Jerk?

There are some key clues here.

The other telltale difference between a full-blown narcissist and someone who is just being a jerk is choice.

A true narcissist does not have that choice.

For narcissists, this consideration is impossible.

No matter what you do or say, they will still behave narcissistically.

Do not take their behavior personally.

Confronting someone like thissomeone who is not a narcissistcan actually be productive.

If youre working with a narcissist, dealing with them might feel impossible.

Treatment for Narcissistic Personality Disorder

The best treatment for NPD is psychotherapy, or talk therapy.

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