But is sexting a form of cheating?
Depends on who you ask.
So where does the concept of sexting fall on the spectrum of cheating?
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We’ll explore this question as well as how to deal should the issue arise in your relationship.
Are you going to be completely monogamous or potentially open up your relationship at some point?
If you were to do this, what boundaries for intimacy would you put in place?
Is sexting allowed in this understanding?
If this happens, its best to let your partner know, and then you might discuss things.
And you might bring in cultural and societal norms here, too.
Something older people are more likely to consider cheating, younger people might not.
Theres also the concept of anemotional affairto consider.
Not all emotional affairs will involve sexting, but the lines between the two can often be blurred.
At the end of the day, it comes down to intentions.
But that doesnt mean that it wont be painful if youre on the receiving end.
And sexting can cause trust issues.
Such things could potentially damage your relationship further, even resulting in a break-up.
If your partner has been sexting, it may affect your self-confidence, self-worth, and self-esteem, too.
Addressing the Issue of Sexting in Relationships
First, says Golabek, Breathe.
This is not necessarily the end of your relationship.
Addressing sexting in a relationship is not going to be easy.
Relationship therapymay also be useful in helping you move forward after sexting if you consider it to be cheating.
But above all, you deserve to feel comfortable in your relationship, and treated with respect.
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