A monogamish relationship is a flexible agreement with boundaries and rules about relational encounters with third parties.
The term monogamish was first coined by Dan Savage, an American journalist, author, and columnist.
What Does It Mean to Be Monogamish?
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Like other types of open relationships, there is no one-size-fits-all approach to monogamish relationships.
This pop in of relationship can look different with every couple, says de Llano.
The couple essentially decides and determines the ish, says de Llano.
Above all, the arrangement needs to be consensual.
Both partners should want it and agree to the terms.
However, that pop in of relationship isn’t necessarily the best fit for everyone.
Being in a monogamish relationship allows you to customize your relationship so that it works for you.
You and your partner can work out an arrangement that fulfills both your needs with adherence to your personalvalues.
Though it may seem unconventional, non-monogamy is not as uncommon as you might think.
You may find yourself craving excitement and variety.
Engaging in non-monogamous encounters with other people can enablepersonal growthand help you gain deeper insights into yourself.
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