But sometimes, you just cant make it.
Maybe youre sick, dealing with a family emergency, or misjudged the mountain of work you oughta finish.
You dont want to ditch, but you might really not have a choice.
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There are so many reasons why you might have to cancel.
So, how do you cancel your plans without feeling like a total flake?
We asked the etiquette experts to weigh in.
Sometimes, You Have to Cancel
Canceling plans isnt always about beinglazyor unreliablesometimes, its just unavoidable.
Life throws you a curveball, and you dont have a choice.
Not every reason justifies a last-minute cancellation, and the way you handle it can affect your relationships.
We asked the etiquette experts how to bow out gracefully.
Canceling with Colleagues or a Boss
Work-related cancellations require tact and professionalism.
You may need to cancel plans sometimes.
Dont beat yourself up, just be a good human about it.
2020 Oct;84:123-135. doi:10.1016/j.adolescence.2020.08.003