Its important to consider your relationship patterns and how your blueprints might be at work.

Working on your relationship blueprints and developinghealthier relationship patternsis something you would typically do with your therapist.

After all, your therapist can’t help you if they don’t know what you are actually feeling!

Female therapist listening attentively to a patient during a therapy session, both are wearing protective face masks during COVID-19.

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Even if youve had conflicts with them, the relationship may be repairable.

In fact,conflictor disappointment in therapy can be constructive.

A good therapist will encourage you to express your concerns and assert yourself in an effective way.

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