It’s not as hard as it sounds
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Are you interesting?
If not, don’t worrythere are ways to become more interesting.
Being interesting is all about being curious and having a genuine zest for life.
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You don’t have to travel the world, have the most interesting job, or be a genius.
Being interesting comes in all shapes and sizes.
What’s more, you may already be more interesting than you think.
We’re our own worst critics, after all.
When you’re curious, you’re more likely toask questionsand engage in conversations.
You’ll also be more open to new experiences.
However, to be truly interesting, don’t just ask questionsgather information on your own as well.
This will make you more knowledgeable, and people will be impressed by your abilities.
This includes meeting new people.
When you meet someone new, make an effort to learn about them and their interests.
Go out of your way to talk to people, even if you don’t know them well.
If you’re at a party, for example, make an effort totalk to different people.
Be a Good Storyteller
An interesting person is often agood storyteller.
When you share your experiences with others, double-check to make them captivating.
When you’re enthusiastic about a topic, it’s more likely to come across as interesting.
This is because people are drawn to others who arepassionate about something.
You never know, you might just find a new friend who shares your interests.
Instead, embrace your uniqueness and let your true personality shine through.
People are attracted to those who aregenuine and authentic, so don’t be afraid to be yourself.
When you’re honest about your opinions, people will respect you for iteven if they don’t agree.
If you want to be interesting,pay attention to the detailsabout yourself as they tell a story.
When you’re enjoying yourself, it’s more likely to come across as interesting to others.
This is because people are attracted to those who are fun and upbeat.
Some potential pitfalls of being uninteresting include:
Can You Be Too Interesting?
If you don’t currently consider yourself to be an interesting person, don’t worry.
Just remember to be yourself, take risks, be open-minded, and have fun.
2020;88(5):993-1006. doi:10.1111/jopy.12546
