Yes, scheduled activities and designated date nights can actually be fun.

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When you startdatingsomeone, things are often new and exciting.

Every interaction is thrilling because its something youve never done before.

Romantic young couple lying and sitting on flooring watching a movie on their large projector screen at home

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Then slowly, over time, you align your schedules, designate date night, and divide the chores.

Youve settled into a comfortable routine.

The idea of having a routine in your relationship can sound boring.

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However, developing a routine doesnt mean that complacency has arrived and your relationship is doomed.

Besides, having a fixed routine can give you and your partner something to look forward to.

They provide checkpoints to harmonize with each other and be in alignment.

We must learn to be flexible with life.

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