Don’t let statistics dictate your happiness.

While these are huge numbers, it was higher in previous years.

In 2021, there were a total of 689,308 divorces.

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These numbers are alarming, but there is hope.

First, the number ofdivorceshas dropped since the year 2000.

Marriageisnt for everyone and more folks are realizing that.

As a result, some young adults are no longer considering getting married.

What Is the Top Cause of Divorce?

Shawn Howard, LMFT, a therapist, backs up this notion.

In some situations, this loss of hope is critical.

How Long Does the Average Marriage Last?

Massachusetts had the lowest, at 1.0 per 1,000 people.

Which Country Has the Highest Divorce Rate?

As of 2023, the Maldives has the highest divorce rate out of the entire world.

It clocks in at an annual rate of 5.52 per 1,000 people.

For context, the United States has an overall rate of 2.7 per 1,000 people.

He recommended having open communication about money, sex, family, and values.

Be Independent Before Getting Married, But Have a Support System

Involve the community, Howard explained.

To avoid this, try seeking help as early as possible.

Don’t assume that issues will resolve themselves.

You will have a better chance if you seek help earlier in your marriage.

When Should You Get a Divorce?

For more mental health resources, see ourNational Helpline Database.

Can I Save My Marriage?

This line of decision-making can help avoid a contentious divorce.

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