It’s also essential to get rid of old stereotypes.

Its time to start talking about finances openly and courageously.

And sometimes it’s a control issue, and sometimes it’s just a natural interest.

Man paying with credit card for romantic dinner at restaurant

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What if I do want to work?

Or what if I have another plan?

Or what if I have a goal?

Or what if I want to help my family financially?

I want to double-check that every party is getting their questions answered and is educated and knowledgeable.

Modern life feels quite different now.

Dual income families, freelancing, zero-hours contracts, credit cards, disposable spending, consumer culture.

And where those gender norms exist, there too is conflict.

Dual income families, freelancing, zero-hours contracts, credit cards, disposable spending, consumer culture.

Figuring Out Your Financial Compatibility

But what about financial deal breakers when it comes to your relationship?

Be open to understanding each others spending styles.

This includes whats important to you, and what can you live without.