Many very happy long-term coupleseven those who are still regularly intimatehave a difficult time talking about sex.
Trust us, we know how awkward it can be.
Everyone is turned on by different things.
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Some can be conventional like a persons smile, physique, or sense of style.
There are circumstances where exhibitionist behavior can become harmful, especially when consent is not practiced or respected.
If certain criteria are met, it could be considered aparaphilic disorder.
What Does Exhibitionist Behavior Look Like?
Exhibitionist behaviors can vary from person to person.
This may be pleasurable for you, but weird or too kinky for others.
Is Exhibitionism Always Sexual?
No, Shannon explains that exhibitionism isnt always sexual.
When Does Exhibitionism Become a Paraphilic Disorder?
These thoughts or acts are persistent and recurrent for at least 6 months.
Another example is when you are naked and/or sexual in front of people without their consent.
The behavior is illegal if children are involved, and carries severe punishments.
Lack of consent can occur digitally.
An example is when someone receives unsolicited nudes or an unwanted video of them performing a sexual act.
Is It the Same Thing as Voyeurism?
Exhibitionism isnt the same thing as voyeurism; however, they are both fetishes and can work well together.
Therefore, an exhibitionist and a voyeur would be able to meet their sexual desires together.
How to Practice Exhibitionism Safely
Shannon emphasizes that the key to practicing exhibitionism safely is consent.
ensure whoever is seeing you naked and/or engaging in sexual activity has consented, advises Shannon.
However, you could also explore your exhibitionist fetish without meeting up in person.
These can be used simply for your own pleasure or for profit.
There are even beach resorts, such as the famous Hedonism, where exhibitionism is generally welcomed.
you might also consider planning a fun or grounding activity like a walk or meditation session the following day.
However, be sure there is consent before you get kinky.
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