It can also be a significant source of stress in your relationships or stress at work.
Therefore, it’s important to learn conflict resolution skills.
While many people keep quiet when they are upset,unfortunately, this isnt a healthy long-term strategy.
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Unfortunately, resolving conflict can be tricky as well.
Handled improperly, attempts at conflict resolution can actually make the conflict worse.
), here are some guidelines to makeconflict resolutionmore simple and less stressful.
Heavy workloads or poor leadership can contribute to conflict.
Conflicts With Family
Different members of the family may have opposing viewpoints or values.
These values can be religious, cultural, or lifestyle-related.
These skills center on getting in touch with yourself and strengthening your communication.
It may seem that your feelings should already be obvious to you, but this isnt always the case.
Sometimes you feel angry or resentful, but dont know why.
Sometimes this process brings up some pretty heavy issues.
Good listening is one of the most effective conflict resolution strategies.
It helps tobridge the gapbetween you and another person and to understand where the disconnect is.
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Unfortunately, active listening is a skill that not everybody knows.
This is especially true if the conflict is happening at work.
Afamily therapistmay help for families who are experiencing conflict.
confirm you aresetting healthy boundariesbefore resolving family or relationship conflicts.
If there is a way that everyone’s needs can be met by one solution, be open-minded.
If your conflict is at work, remember that there are laws protecting employees from workplace bullying and harassment.
Try doing some research first.
Human resources can let you know about your organization’s policies against bullying as well.
You may even make some relationship resolutions that help ease any tension.
It might help to put yourself in someone else’s shoes.
Maybe their background, experiences, and values contribute to why they say or do certain things.
Saying you’re sorry for hurting their feelings can go a long way.
Try talking to a trusted friend or colleague about the situation to get objective advice.
you could also talk to a mental health professional.
It’s advisable to talk to a human resources representative if you’re experiencing a potential conflict at work.
They can advise you and even address a situation head-on to prevent it from escalating.
A Word From Verywell
Most people dread conflict and confrontation.
But learning and utilizing conflict resolution skills and strategies can help make settling a conflict a little bit easier.
Remember, you don’t have to face conflicts alone.
Frequently Asked Questions
Communicate as clearly as possible.
Set boundaries defining unacceptable behavior (such as shouting or name-calling).
If fighting occurs, take a break and continue talking another time.
If a person is abusive, take a stab at get to a safe location as soon as possible.
Conflict management skills are strategies that can reduce tension and hurt feelings and increase respect and communication during disagreements.
Conflict management skills are important for maintaining healthy relationships.
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