No, that’s not your dog, butTikTokslatest relationship terminology: The Golden Retriever Boyfriend.
I couldnt help but be fascinated by TikToks newest relationship craze and had to dig in to learn more.
The football player is always cheesing around her, generally has a sunny disposition, and isnt abovesilly antics.
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A Golden Retriever Boyfriend isnt overly protective, introverted, and cold to strangers.
But they’re also quite clingy, according to TikTok.
They’re overly affectionate and somewhat codependent on your presence to be happy.
Benefits of Having a Golden Retriever Boyfriend
The Golden Retriever Boyfriend is the classic fairytale story IRL.
(Re:Lucky Girl Syndrome).
Many of my clients compare theirrelationshipsto what they see online.
Not only does this set us up for disappointment, it is also unfair to our partner.
Theyre not perfect and they dont have to be.
After all, they’re human, not a golden retriever.
However, there are some concerns within this archetype.
For example, if your partner relies only on you for social connection,isolationcan occur.
Take this skit on TikTok for example.
Another red flag is thedifficulties in having serious conversations.
It is important to have fun and enjoy each other’s company.
The Golden Retriever Boyfriend is depicted as being somewhat naive.
Finding Support
If youre consistently comparing your relationship to the Internet, reflect on why.
If you feel like your relationship could use some support, try attendingcouples therapy.
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