And if you think its best for you to not live with your sister, that is your choice.
Just because she is angry at you doesnt mean you have done anything wrong.
Make the Right Decision for You
You get to decide what rules you set in your home.
Verywell / Catherine Song
And in your case, you decided you didnt want too many adults living under one roof.
Its healthy for you and your partner to want some privacy after you get married.
Clearly, your sister doesnt like that you set this boundary.
Now, shes either trying to punish you with thesilent treatmentor shes hoping her silence will change your mind.
It probably hurts to think about your sister not talking to you.
After all, it sounds like you were kind enough to open your home to her.
She is disregarding the fact that you dont feel like that is in your best interest right now.
However, your decision could lead to better results for your sister’s life, too.
If shes experiencing financial difficulties, this situation may motivate her to create positive changes for herself.
Either way, her problems are not necessarily your responsibility.
She may not be speaking to you now, but this doesnt mean she wont come around eventually.
In the meantime, you may be grieving the loss of having your sister in your life.
You might have been really close if you were living together.
Not having her around might stir up a variety of feelings.
Those emotions might have just gotten stirred up because of your sisters reactionnot because of the choice you made.
So look forhealthy ways to cope with those feelingslike with physical activity, journaling, or leisure activities.
Focus on Your Marriage and Moving Forward
Youre better off putting your energy into your new marriage.
Steer clear of the temptation to get other people involved.
You dont necessarily need to get into a lengthy conversation about why your sister is mad.
Talking to other people about the situation will only fuel the distance between you and your sister.
