Anticipatory grief has a lot in common withconventional grief, the grief one experiences after a loss.
Furthermore, anticipatory grief can start at any time prior to the loss.
Why Does Anticipatory Grief Happen?
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Anticipatory grief can also motivatepersonal growthand help usfind closurefor both the dying individual and their loved ones.
This closure can help us find meaning and purpose in the situation.
What Are the Signs of Anticipatory Grief?
Some of the symptoms of anticipatory grief can include:
What Does Anticipatory Grief Look Like?
There may be days when parts of each stage come up and other days when none do.
This realization is often accompanied by depression and sadness.
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These responses may be due to theuncertainty and loss of controlbrought on by anticipatory grief.
Does Anticipatory Grief Mitigate Conventional Grief?
In some studies, anticipatory grief was shown to make the period of conventional grief easier.
Moreover, the period following a loss may be even more intense than the period before.
How each individualexperiences griefbefore and after the death of a loved one will vary.
How Do I Let Go of Anticipatory Grief?
While thiscan lead to feelings of guilt, it’s important to remember that anticipatory grief is normal.
you could cope with anticipatory grief by using it to prepare for the impending loss.
This can also help you start the process of letting go.
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