This emotional abuse pops up if an abuser inflicts harm upon the victim through third parties.
The perpetrator may turn the victims children against them in some circumstances.
Each of these examplesfunctions as a wayto intimidate, isolate and inflict punishment upon the victim.
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Sometimes this form of abuse can result in humiliation, thus resulting in the victimsself-esteembecoming significantly impacted.
For more mental health resources, see ourNational Helpline Database.
Furthermore, many people overlook emotional abuse within domestic andintimate partner violence.
A common form of emotional violence that occurs inabusive relationshipsis isolation.
An abusive partner accomplishes this by sabotaging the victims closest relationships.
The perpetrator then ends up having increased control over the victim.
Is Narcissism Related to Abuse by Proxy?
Such abuse isnt only harmful to the victim.
It can bedetrimental to childrenin the household, regardless of whether the child was directly involved in the abuse.
It can also lead them to developpost-traumatic stress disorder, behavioral disorders, and physical symptoms likebedwettingand diarrhea.
First and foremost, remember that someone who loves you would never work to have others harm you.
Reaching out to theDomestic Violence Hotlineis a way to start turning towards help.
Healing From Abuse By Proxy
Healing is possible.
It isnt uncommon to be gaslit by perpetrators of abuse by proxy.
Let this article serve as an unshakable reminder that you deserve safety, healthy connections, and security.
Seek outa support group,local resources in your area, and atrusted psychotherapistto get you help.
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