The issue may not mean that the relationship is over, but it may lead you to proceed cautiously.
LMSW, founder of Moms for Mental Health.
A yellow flag issue can turn into a red flag if it is never dealt with or resolved.
Verywell / Zoe Hansen
Red flags often require immediate action or intervention to address, says Johnson.
Both levels of issues are important.
However, an orange flag moves it from observation to being more harmful to the relationship.
How to Determine Your Yellow Flags
Yellow flag issues differ from person to person.
So, how do you figure out which issues will upset you?
Along those same lines, observe what is important to your mate.
If their values dont seem to align with yours, that could be a warning sign.
Does something seem off in the relationship?
Are you uneasy, or is there something making you uncomfortable?
Discuss Your Concerns With Loved Ones
Other people you trust can help you determine your yellow flags.
Talk to trusted friends or family members about your concerns and ask for their input.
Are Yellow Flags Bad?
Yellow flags are not necessarily bad.
Being able to identify a concern and bring it to the forefront can provide an opportunity for healthycommunication.
If a concerning issue can help make your relationship healthier and stronger, then its a positive.
Approaching your partner with understanding, and evenempathy, is a good place to start.
Perhaps looking at the behavior from their perspective will help you know how to deal with it.
Use I statements to avoidblamelanguage.
Understand the difference between a preference and a problem.
Let them know what is not appropriate in the relationship.
The most important thing, however, is to find a solution that works for everyone in the relationship.
How Can I ensure I Don’t Miss Yellow Flags?
Listen to whats going on inside of you.
Practicing mindfulness is a good way to tap into your feelings.
Above all,be honest with yourself.
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