What Are the Signs of a Self-Centered Person?
These are six signs that someone is too self-centered.
Self-centered people may not be able to see things from another person’s perspective for empathize with them.
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They Take More Than They Give
Self-centered people often take more than they give.
They Want Things Done Their Way
People who are self-centered often want things done their way.
They may have a hard time compromising and doing things someone else’s way.
For instance, they typically wont let anyone else pick the movie or restaurant, says Dr. Daramus.
Most people respond to being re-directed or can learn to be re-directed, says Renteria.
Dr. Daramus recommends being diplomatic but specific in your needs and preferences.
However, recognizing them for who they are and adjusting yourexpectationsaccordingly can help you cope.
How Can You Tell If You Are Too Self-Centered?
While we can recognize self-centeredness in other people, it can be harder to recognize it in ourselves.
Frequently Asked Questions
Self-centeredness and selfishness are similar concepts, but theyre not exactly the same thing.
Self-centeredness is a single-minded focus on oneself and one’s own needs, desires, preferences, and problems.
Self-centeredness is similar to narcissism, but less severe, says Dr. Daramus.
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