Youve both grown, feel aligned, and deeply love and respect each other.

Other times, however, pangs ofloneliness, romanticized nostalgia, and wishful thinking can drive you to reunite.

So when does it make sense to go for it or just let the ship officially sail?

Closeup shot of an unrecognizable couple resting their hands alongside each other on a couch

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it’s possible for you to start by asking yourself (and your ex) these very important questions.

Then there’s the fear of the unknown, saysDene Logan, MFT, author ofSovereign Love.

Is It a Good Idea to Get Back With Your Ex?

However, in some isolated situations, getting back with your ex actually can make some sense.

If you are not ready to be single, you may not be ready to be in a relationship.

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