Asking the right questions can help us get to know the person and connect with them.

That being said, asking the wrong questions can kill the mood and make things awkward or uncomfortable.

The last thing we want is for the date to feel like an interview or interrogation.

Young woman keeping distance and rejecting a man while having a date together outdoors in a park.

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If youre worried about asking the wrong thing, we’ve got you.

Here are some questions you should avoid on a first date, and what to ask instead.

Be mindful of asking overly personal or judgmental questions, as they can be off-putting.

Asking the right questions and sharing anecdotes about yourself can help you keep the conversation fun and lively.

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