The right activities can inspire intimacy and connection
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We know the feeling.
The one where it begins to feel like Groundhog’s Day with your partner, every day.
Stuck on ideas for things to do together?
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Date nights don’t have to be expensive to be fun, either.
A romantic getaway recharges you both and gives you some quality time together away from your normal routine.
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Dine Off the Beaten Path
Bored with your local restaurants?
Dining off the beaten path can provide a romantic and new experience for both of you.
Pack a backpack and head to the nearest state park for the day.
Get those endorphins going and go for a long hike together.
Or, set up camp for the night and lie side by side gazing at the stars.
Fortunately, there are plenty of great ideas that will help you connect.
Exercise
The benefits of exercising together are plenty.
Ask your partner for a dance in the kitchen.
Or, take your moves out on the town and hit a dance club.
Start a New Hobby
Find common ground andlook for hobbiesyou would enjoy together.
Cook Together
Consider breaking out the measuring cups and cookbooks to spice things up in the kitchen.
Redecorate
Pick a room to redecorate together.
Decorating isn’t about being a master interior designer.
This can be a great opportunity todestress and unwindwhile enjoying each other’s company.
Share a Book
Curl up on the couch or in bed and read a book together.
Read out loud or read together quietly.
Start your own private book club for the two of you.
Discuss the books you’re reading over coffee or your favorite meal.
Games can be sexy, too.
Think strip poker or Twister.
But be sure it’s just the two of you, sitting together and holding hands.
No status updates or Instagram posts.
The activities you enjoy together don’t need to be a lot of work.
Just spending time together relaxing, reading, or watching television can be enjoyable.
Take some time to review your life together.
Renew Your Vows
Looking for something to do together that’s a little more elaborate?
Renew your vows in front of friends and family or have a private ceremony in your living room.
Renewing your vows is a great reminder of the bond you have with each other.
Swap embarrassing childhood stories or meaningful family memories as you explore old hangouts together.
Keep in Mind
Every day is a celebration of your relationship.
But also be sure to celebrate other life moments.
If your partner gets a promotion, cook a special meal to celebrate.
If you pass your annual exam with flying colors, enjoy an evening out together.
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