Although it can sometimes seem superficial, flirting is an important aspect of human behavior.

Although flirting is as old as humankind, flirting techniques and whats considered appropriate have changed dramatically over time.

What Makes Good Flirting?

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Putting yourself out there and riskingrejectioncan definitely be scary.

Be courageous and dont be afraid of being imperfect, says Silva.

She recommends having fun and giving yourself permission to express your feelings, no matter the outcome.

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