If you have theirbest interests at heart, theyll know its coming from a good place.
These are some situations that may require you to intervene.
Youve listened to them vent, youve offered support, but they keep returning to the same pattern.
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This is when tough love might be needed.
you could tell them, Im worried about your behavior and how it’s affecting your life.
I care about you, and I cant stand by and watch you do this.
If theyve been brushing it off for too long, a firm nudge might be necessary.
you’ve got the option to say, I care about you, but this isnt healthy.
You have to take care of yourself, and if you dont, it could get worse.
Its not about being mean, but showing them that their well-being matters to you.
You have the power to improve things, but its up to you.
This pushes them to stop making excuses and start taking action.
You are showing them tough love out of respect and care, and not to hurt or criticize them.
Its not always easy, but sometimes being a real friend means speaking up when it counts.
Having the conversation can be uncomfortable, so gather your courage andcompassion.
2020 Mar 24;14:23. doi:10.1186/s13033-020-00356-9
