We find ourselves wondering: Is he really into me?

Does he even care?

How can he be super affectionate one minute, then shut me out the next?

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Is there something real here or am I just imagining it?

They struggle with communication and talking about their feelings and emotions.

But sometimes, even emotionally unavailable people reveal their feelings in unexpected ways.

Here are some telltale signs that he might be more invested than he’s letting on.

In fact, he may not even realize it himself.

However, it’s important to remember that healthy relationships require opencommunicationand emotional intimacy.

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