This relationship structure is also commonly known asethical non-monogamy(ENM) or consensual non-monogamy (CNM).
Whether or not they want an open relationship themselves, most people (82%) approve of them.
With mainstream acceptance comes a further conversation about what makes an open relationship successful.
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Each person will have a different idea of what they want an open relationship to look like.
Certain guidelines can simply help with figuring it out.
Or are you hoping to fix a broken relationship, avoid commitment, or feel pressure from your partner?
If its the latter, its going to be a rocky road ahead.
Set boundaries
Its not enough to say, Lets have an open relationship.
A successful open relationship requires clear, communicated boundaries.
Of course, this also depends on whether your partner is comfortable discussing this.
These will be vulnerable,honest conversations.
Be patient
This is a new experience, and it will take time to get it right.
Be willing to learn and grow together, says Boodram.
Be patient with yourself and your partner as you go.
Protection and regular testing are key to keeping everyone safe and informed, says Boodram.
Take a small step, check in with yourself and your partner, and go from there.
You may know your partner very well, but an open relationship is a new territory.
You cant be sure what theyll be comfortable with you doing and what their boundaries are, says Bijraj.
Discuss these things upfront to avoid hurt feelings and arguments.
Its a normal reaction to knowing the person you care about is with someone else.
The problem is when you let it boil inside.
Are open relationships more likely to fail?
An open relationship is not destined or more likely to fail by any means.
Everyone needs to be in consensual and relational agreement when exploring options beyond monogamy.
A one-sided open relationship in which only one partner dates other peopleexists, but it comes with unique challenges.
Each relationship is unique based on its circumstances and the people involved in it.
Take the time to determine whats right for you and your partner.
