Recognizing the symptoms of this mental health condition that can be harmful to a marriage is the first step.

Are ADD and ADHD the Same Thing?

A spouse with ADD may seem disorganized and inattentive to household chores and maintenance.

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They may even feel embarrassed by the seeming rudeness toward friends and family members.

Financial Issues

Living with a spouse with an attention disorder may lead to afinancially precarious situation.

One study found thatrisky sexual behavioris a common pattern in individuals with ADHD.

Difficulty Making Decisions

Making decisions with a spouse with ADD can sometimes feel impossible.

Being Ignored

In some cases, the spouse may retreat into a computer game or other project.

This can leave their partner feeling ignored or like their marriage is in a rut.

Some research suggests that these adults tend to have “short-lived and discordant romantic relationships.

“Yet, it doesn’t have to be this way as help is available.

A mental health therapist can assist with this process.

It can also be helpful to learn more about this topic.

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